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Southern Charm alum Naomie Olindo has found The One in fiancé Billy Haire after kissing a few frogs — and former costars — along the way.
When Olindo made her Bravo debut in 2016, she was dating costar Craig Conover. After showing the good, the bad and the sewing-filled feuds between the couple, Conover and Olindo called it quits in 2017.
Both Olindo and Conover moved on romantically — some of which was shown on reality TV — before the L’ABEYE founder walked away from Southern Charm in 2019 after four seasons. (She later returned to Southern Charm for one season in 2022.)
Olindo has since found love again with Haire, and the pair got engaged in December 2025. Of course, fans are still intrigued by her road to happily ever after.
Scroll down for a look back at Olindo’s complete dating life:
Craig Conover
Olindo joined the cast of Southern Charm during season 3 in 2015, as Craig Conover’s girlfriend after meeting Conover while attending the College of Charleston. (The season aired in 2016.) The pair moved in together during season 4, but called it quits in fall 2017 after less than three years of dating.
Despite parting ways, Olindo and Conover continued to costar on the Bravo series until Olindo’s exit after season 6. When Olindo returned to Southern Charm during season 8, she and Conover played coy about their status after rumors surfaced that the exes had hooked up in Las Vegas early on in Conover’s relationship with Paige DeSorbo. (Conover and DeSorbo split in late 2024 after three years together.)
“I was surprised at how much emphasis was put on it in the episode because I think other people made it a much bigger deal than it was to me and Craig,” Olindo exclusively told Us Weekly in June 2022, confirming that her and Conover’s hooked up took place after her split from Metul Shah in summer 2021 before Conover and DeSorbo were exclusive. “It was sort of like a time and place thing where it’s like, ‘OK, I know you, I trust you, we were both like fresh off breakups.’ This is a really long time ago now, but it was never like, ‘Oh, we need to get back together, blah, blah.’ It was just like a comfort thing — a very temporary comfort thing.”
Paige DeSorbo and Naomie Olindo have seemingly bonded after their respective splits from mutual ex-boyfriend Craig Conover. DeSorbo, 32, appeared to give Olindo, 33, her stamp of approval after the Southern Charm alum shared a series of photos featuring her new boyfriend, Billy Haire, via Instagram. “A little bit of bliss!” Olindo captioned the carousel […]
Metul Shah
Olindo went public with doctor Metul Shah in May 2018 and Shah made his Southern Charm debut the following year during season 6. After celebrating three years together in April 2021, Olindo announced she was moving to New York City with Shah for his job.
News broke in July 2021 that Olindo and Shah had called it quits after he allegedly cheated on her before their brief move to the Big Apple.
“I think the biggest takeaway was just to keep a very strong sense of self and to not lose my sense of self in a relationship,” Olindo exclusively told Us in June 2022 while looking back at the tough breakup. “I think with my personality type and stuff, I tend to sort of morph into whatever I think the person in front of me wants and lose my true, like, authentic self in the process. And I think a lot of people go through that.”
Whitney Sudler-Smith
During season 8 of Southern Charm, which aired in summer 2022, Olindo revealed she secretly hooked up with costar Whitney Sudler-Smith following his mom, Patricia Altschul, and pal Shep Rose’s dog wedding.
“Speaking of the dog wedding, I didn’t tell you, but right after, I did kiss Whitney,” Olindo confessed to Leva Bonaparte and Austen Kroll during an August 2022 episode. “It was fun. He spent the night here.”
When it comes to Southern hospitality, the cast of Southern Charm doesn’t stop at being “just friends.” In fact, some of the show’s biggest names, including Shep Rose, Kathryn Dennis and Austen Kroll have a history of dating their costars — in between off-camera romances. Thank You! You have successfully subscribed. Subscribe to newsletters Please […]
Billy Haire
Us exclusively confirmed in April 2025 that Olindo was seeing Billy Haire, who was previously married to model Brooks Nader. Olindo gave fans a glimpse at her and Haire’s budding romance via Instagram that same month, before pulling back the curtain more over the summer with a series of snapshots from their time together.
Olindo announced via Instagram in December 2025 that Haire had proposed over the holidays. “The luckiest girl in the whole wide world,” she captioned a joint post showing Haire down on one knee.
