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Over half of men admit that financial struggles have made them feel like they’ve fallen short of “being a man,” according to a recent survey.
In honor of Men’s Mental Health Month in June, the survey polled 2,000 men, evenly split by generation, to investigate how money difficulties and societal pressure to provide have impacted their well-being.
According to the findings, over three-fourths of respondents (77 percent) said that growing up, they were taught that a man’s primary role within his family is to be the financial provider.
However, most (70 percent) feel that it’s harder for men to fulfill the role of financial provider today, compared to their parents’ generation.
There are many reasons for this, but the top ones referenced in the results were the cost of living increasing faster than wages (54 percent), lack of affordable housing (43 percent), economic uncertainty (39 percent) and increasing job instability (35 percent).
Men are struggling financially — and paying a mental health price.
The study was conducted by Talker Research on behalf of Beyond Finance and uncovered that more than four in ten men (42 percent) said they are in dire financial straits: 17 percent said they’re not even able to make ends meet financially, and a quarter (25 percent) said they’re just barely getting by.
This situation has had a very real, damaging impact on their overall well-being. In the study, more than a third of respondents (35 percent) revealed that financial concerns negatively impact their mental health every day.
And the likelihood of negative mental health impact increases in young men: Nearly half of Gen Z admitted that money worries hurt their mental well-being daily. In comparison, just 17 percent of baby boomer respondents said the same.
The survey also found that the majority of men (57 percent) carry some type of debt. This percentage holds steady year-on-year from 2025 to 2026, according to a similar study conducted by Talker Research on behalf of Beyond Finance in 2025.
Looking at the effects of debt on men’s mental health, men said they feel frustrated (43 percent), overwhelmed (32 percent), anxious (32 percent), hopeless (24 percent) and embarrassed (22 percent) about having debt in the 2026 survey.
“What stands out to me in this data is the silence. Men are carrying enormous financial and emotional weight, and most of them are carrying it completely alone because asking for help feels like proof that they’re failing,” said Nathan Astle, CFT-I, client financial therapist at Beyond Finance.
“That silence isn’t stoicism. It’s suffering, and it’s where a lot of the real damage to men’s mental health, relationships, and sense of self actually happens.”
Layered in with the pressure to provide and the psychological impact of debt, respondents said that money struggles are a stigmatized subject for men.
In the study, the majority (72 percent) agreed that society expects men to handle financial stress silently and not talk about it with others.
As an example of this, 56 percent of men surveyed confessed that, in the past, they’ve avoided discussing financial worries with others because they felt that they should “have it handled.”
This has led to more than half (58 percent) feeling isolated, due to the pressure to be financially successful.
“What the data shows is a profound disconnect. Men are privately rejecting the very standard they feel publicly forced to meet. Most men don’t want to be defined by their income. They want meaningful lives, strong relationships, and a sense of purpose. But somewhere along the way, nobody told them they were allowed to want that instead,” said Astle.
“Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month is a chance to say out loud what a lot of men are thinking privately: Financial struggle is not a character flaw, and suffering in silence is not strength. The conversation itself is part of the solution.”
Men’s success isn’t just about financial gains anymore
Amidst money woes, stigma and societal pressure, men are rewriting the definition of personal success in 2026.
Per the findings, men said they define personal success as having good mental health (53 percent) and strong relationships (44 percent), as well as maintaining a strong sense of purpose (44 percent) and work/life balance (40 percent).
One respondent encapsulated this nicely, saying that success is about “living with purpose, integrity and emotional maturity, rather than [being] purely [about] financial gain or social status.”
Men are also redefining what it means to be a financial provider in 2026. Respondents’ top way they see themselves as successful providers is by being someone that their families can depend on in all areas, not just financially (44 percent).
Respondents also said providing is about ensuring their loved ones’ basic needs are met (43 percent), offering guidance and mentorship within the family (39 percent), saving for the future (35 percent) and participating in parenting and caregiving responsibilities (32 percent).
Men’s Mental Health Month key stats
● More than half of men (57 percent) admitted that financial struggles have made them feel that they’re falling short of “being a man.”
● Over a third (35 percent) revealed that financial concerns negatively impact mental health every day.
● Most (70 percent) feel that it’s harder for men to fulfill the role of financial provider today, compared to their parents’ generation.
● The majority of men (72 percent) agreed that society expects men to handle financial stress silently, and not talk about it with others.
● Over half of men (56 percent) said that in the past, they’ve avoided discussing financial worries with others because they felt that they should “have it handled.”
● Fifty-eight percent confessed they’ve felt isolated from those around them due to pressure to be financially successful.
How men define personal success in 2026
1. Good mental health (53 percent)
2. Strong relationships (45 percent)
3. A strong sense of purpose (44 percent)
4. Having a family (41 percent)
5. Work-life balance (40 percent)
6. Making a positive impact on others (39 percent)
7. Being well-rounded (37 percent)
8. Owning a home (37 percent)
9. High income (31 percent)
10. Having a college degree (15 percent)
2026 Research methodology:
Talker Research surveyed 2,000 men evenly split by generation who have access to the internet; the survey was commissioned by Beyond Finance and administered and conducted online by Talker Research between May 8 and May 14, 2026.
